" yes, i admit that my life, my studies, my business is not working the way i want them to work out. "
I invested so much of my time, effort , money , my ideas and all went to nothing! such a waste! i don't want to try anymore, i don't wan't to venture out! I'm such a FAILURE! ENOUGH! a voice of a frustrated , disappointed enterpreneurs, starters and students. But isn't it that life is all about venturing and business is the whole thing of gambling? Isn't that we are all familiar with the line " we learn through our mistakes" and it all so happen that if we commit 'mistakes' we see ourself at the gate of " failures" entering slowly. The mistakes you committed is not the reason of why you are in a messirable situation, it is the way you set your perspective and the permission that you give to Mr. Fear to imprison and withold you for initiating a possitive action. There's nothing wrong with fear but to let it pull you down that what makes it wrong, just feel it but don't let it stop you doing what you want or what you ought to do. Accept fear as FACT OF LIFE rather than a barrier to succes ( S.Jeffer ).
" Set your perspective correctly and be the first encourager of yourself"
I remember what S. jeffer had said, she said -
'the most important thing is for you to be your own bestfriend and whatever your are doing - DON'T PUT YOURSELF DOWN!' ...just as each decision is an opportunity to learn, each "mistakes" is also an opportunity to learn, rendering it impossible to make a mistake. A great researcher, having "failed" two hundred times before he found the answer to no one of his burning questions, was asked, " doesn't it bother you that you failed all those times?" His answer was "I never failed! I discovered two hundred ways not to do something!"
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